(Source: barsandtwists, via lexzilla)
You can be a bitch, a queen, neither, or both at the same damn time, period, the end. All these rigid ass definitions and performances of womanhood based on outside definition are ridiculous in intent, intellectually dishonest, tiresome and riddled with sexism/misogyny/& respectability complexes. You ain’t gotta be anything for anyone but yourself, and if you out here turning your nose down because someone doesn’t fit into your paradigm, you need to look in the mirror and get some act right. It’s not them, it’s you and this regurgitation of bullshit that harms you, but you too busy spouting off about, how you so goddamn respectable, archaic nonsense. Only respect that you need is from yourself.
(via niggaimdeadass)